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Projection: A Gaslighter’s Signature Technique

Whatever the gaslighter/narcissist is or whatever he is doing, he will assign those characteristics or behaviors to you.  It’s done almost to comedic effect – if it wasn’t so potentially damaging to your career.  At work, your gaslighting/narcissistic boss will write on your performance review that you are always late.  However, you are punctual to […]

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5 Ways Narcissists Project and Attack You

Whenever a narcissistic person feels threatened, they will call you the things that they themselves are as or are afraid that others see them as. And then they will try to stalk you, slander you, or discredit you. They will try to sabotage and destroy you. They will start a smear campaign and attempt character assassination. […]

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Don’t get sucked into the vortex of Parental Alienation

Just arrived home after 4 days away from Facebook and all the things I don’t want to hear about my alienated children. Feeling loved, appreciated and energised after the break. Remember its their choice not ours, we have not chosen alienation (or whatever you may want to call it) they have. We are not alienated […]

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“Narcissism is increasing,”

“Narcissism is increasing,” ALEXANDRIA, La. (BP) — “Narcissism is increasing,” concluded W. Keith Campbell, head of the department of psychology at the University of Georgia, “notably in the form of grandiose narcissism and NPD [narcissistic personality disorder].” Campbell made those observations in a recent article for the British newspaper The Independent, titled “Are we more […]

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If they like where they are, who are you to try to change that?

Unfortunately, there are so many broken people in this world and so many people who need saving or at least guidance. There are so many people who want to heal but have no idea how to get there. I think that we’re all a little bit broken. We’ve all been through hell at some point of our […]

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Mental illness is a terribly frightening and frustrating experience

Mental illness is a terribly frightening and frustrating experience. At times, when I was in a particular dark place, I would lash out at anyone who was nearby — which, unfortunately, often was my mother. But, amazingly, my mother never held it against me. She continued to love and protect me. Sometimes she would apologize for […]

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Understanding a tactic that keeps a toxic person in the driver’s seat

Gaslighting versus blame-shifting To be clear, both tactics are verbally abusive and depend on an imbalance of power in the relationship between the person using them and the person on the receiving end; the powerless intended target is usually very invested in the relationship, most likely loves or cares deeply about the abuser, and is […]

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Projection: A Gaslighter’s Signature Technique

Whatever the gaslighter/narcissist is or whatever he is doing, he will assign those characteristics or behaviors to you.  It’s done almost to comedic effect – if it wasn’t so potentially damaging to your career.  At work, your gaslighting/narcissistic boss will write on your performance review that you are always late.  However, you are punctual to […]

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Do Not Accept A Narcissist False Accusation Of You

Narcissists are often fond of accusing another of the very things or attitudes they are culpable of. While such false accusations are often done in your absence (e.g. to your boss at your place of work, or with friends). Narcissists are also bold enough to accuse you of a trait they know they are culpable […]

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