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Feel sorry for and pity the Alienator

Have pity and feel sorry for the alienating parent. Really NO!!!!!!! I speak from experience, you do not have to be a psychologist or social worker to work it out. The alienator – (be them a parent, sibling or grandparent) obviously has severe insecurity issues and much emotional baggage. By alienating a child from people […]

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Don’t get sucked into the vortex of Parental Alienation

Just arrived home after 4 days away from Facebook and all the things I don’t want to hear about my alienated children. Feeling loved, appreciated and energised after the break. Remember its their choice not ours, we have not chosen alienation (or whatever you may want to call it) they have. We are not alienated […]

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Alienators will be alienated

All alienators will be alienated at some stage in their lives. After instilling bitterness, anger and resentment into their own offspring,this will then become a behavior of that child/adult child that will unfortunately come back to haunt them one day. If a person that is capable of stealing your children and alienating them against you […]

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Happily ever after.

Once upon a time there was a very ordinary naive young girl of 18 who met a handsome young man 2 years older. The young girl came from a loving family and had a very comfortable upbringing. The young man came from a very poor family, but despite their differences they fell in love. The […]

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FORGIVEN BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

Once upon a time there was a very ordinary naive young girl of 18 who met a handsome young man 2 years older. The young girl came from a loving family and had a very comfortable upbringing. The young man came from a very poor family, but despite their differences they fell in love. The […]

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MY OWN STORY OF #PAS

ANON – In my case it was financial. 1991 My children stayed with me until after the divorce until the financial settlement. 1992 – My ex husband went for residency order for each child on their twelfth birthdays, I was encouraged to go along with this by a so-called long-term local friend who said it […]

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Do you have a child? (Did you have a child?)

Do you have a child? Sit and close your eyes. Imagine what it is going to be like in 10 years time. Will they be going to school? Will they be going to university? Will they be going to work? Birthdays, Christmas, Holidays, Special occassions!!!! Now open your eyes and think about? They are no […]

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A wake up call

Well what a week after “Living the Lie” so many hits and I do not know why! To be honest I am really now past caring, that’s why there’s no problem with blogging and sharing. My daughter is heartless and very mercenary, soon it will be the 4 year anniversary. She loves lots of drama and […]

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Putting the record straight!!!!

Happy New Year everyone. Well just when I thought it was safe to go out after years of harassment from my son in law it has been bought to my attention (they don’t know but they have a spy in the camp) that he has posted on his own facebook a video of my grandson […]

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True stories of Alienation

Here are excerpts (12 mins long) from a longer video (35 mins) made by PACT of three adults telling the full stories of their family separation in their childhood onwards. In their cases the active alienation (two by mothers, one by a father) is added to big geographical moves or abduction. Watch the full video […]

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