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Happy Birthday Lily

16th June 2016

Another year passes and still not been allowed to see her. Don’t know what she looks like, don’t have an address, blocked on social media and phone, not even been sent a photo.

Who has the right to deprive children of many loving relatives (great grandmother, grandmother, aunties, uncles, cousins)???

Just been on a wonderful trip with loving people divorced, separated and more, but loving their children so much overcoming their personal feelings to all be together to celebrate a special occasion. Very uplifting – feeling grateful and loved for being able to share their experience.

I hope my granddaughter is happy and healthy and enjoyed a birthday full of love and happiness. I have a treasure box for her that hopefully one day when she can make your own decisions I can share with her.

We all love her very much.


Love Grandma and the family xxxxxxxxx

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Happy Christmas Children and Grandchildren

To my children and grandchild – I hope Christmas will be very special for you, and that all your dreams and wishes come true.

May 2015 bring you love, peace, happiness and health.


Caring and Sharing

Mum xxx

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Happy Christmas Everyone

A Politically Correct Christmas

~ Anon

Twas the night before Christmas and Santa’s a wreck…
How to live in a world that’s politically correct?
His workers no longer would answer to “Elves”,
“Vertically Challenged” they were calling themselves.
And labor conditions at the North Pole,
were alleged by the union, to stifle the soul.

Four reindeer had vanished without much propriety,
released to the wilds, by the Humane Society.
And equal employment had made it quite clear,
that Santa had better not use just reindeer.
So Dancer and Donner, Comet and Cupid,
were replaced with 4 pigs, and you know that looked stupid!

The runners had been removed from his beautiful sleigh,
because the ruts were deemed dangerous by the EPA,
And millions of people were calling the Cops,
when they heard sled noises upon their roof tops.
Second-hand smoke from his pipe, had his workers quite frightened,
and his fur trimmed red suit was called “unenlightened”.

To show you the strangeness of today’s ebbs and flows,
Rudolf was suing over unauthorized use of his nose.
He went to Geraldo, in front of the Nation,
demanding millions in over-due workers compensation.

So…half of the reindeer were gone, and his wife
who suddenly said she’d had enough of this life,
joined a self help group, packed and left in a whiz,
demanding from now on that her title was Ms.

And as for gifts…why, he’d never had the notion
that making a choice could cause such commotion.
Nothing of leather, nothing of fur…
Which meant nothing for him or nothing for her.
Nothing to aim, Nothing to shoot,
Nothing that clamored or made lots of noise.
Nothing for just girls and nothing for just boys.
Nothing that claimed to be gender specific,
Nothing that’s warlike or non-pacifistic.

No candy or sweets…they were bad for the tooth.
Nothing that seemed to embellish upon the truth.
And fairy tales…while not yet forbidden,
were like Ken and Barbie, better off hidden,
for they raised the hackles of those psychological,
who claimed the only good gift was one ecological.

No baseball, no football…someone might get hurt,
besides – playing sports exposed kids to dirt.
Dolls were said to be sexist and should be passe.
and Nintendo would rot your entire brain away.

So Santa just stood there, disheveled and perplexed,
he just couldn’t figure out what to do next?
He tried to be merry he tried to be gay,
but you must have to admit he was having a very bad day.
His sack was quite empty, it was flat on the ground,
nothing fully acceptable was anywhere to be found.

Something special was needed, a gift that he might,
give to us all, without angering the left or the right.
A gift that would satisfy – with no indecision,
each group of people in every religion.
Every race, every hue,
everyone, everywhere…even you!
So here is that gift, it’s price beyond worth…
“May you and your loved ones enjoy peace on Earth.”


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Spare a thought for alienators,the alienated and children, grandchildren and adult victims of alienation

ALIENATORS – spare a thought for the tragic, sad vengeful life of the the alienator this Christmas. They spend their whole life being bitter and twisted. They need professional help but will probably never ever seek it. They will be in a dark place with their warped view of life this Christmas.


ALIENATED – we are the lucky ones!! We have our sanity, we have empathy, we are able to feel love and warmth for people. We all have the strength and courage to have come this far! But most important of all, we have our happy memories of our children before the alienation, which we are able to draw upon this Christmas. No one can ever take these memories away from us, they are still our children and always will be. Not even an alienator can change that.
CHILDREN/GRANDCHILDREN/GROWN UP CHILDREN – they are the innocent victims. They are the ones who feel the sadness, they are the ones who have the guilt through no fault of their own. Lets hope all alienated children/grandchildren and grown up children can at least enjoy Christmas without the wrath and forked tongue of the alienator. Lets hope they can have a happy peaceful Christmas. Here’s to all alienated children, grandchildren and grown up children everywhere.

We send you peace, love and happiness.




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Happy Christmas Children and Grandchildren 2015!!!!

1990 was the last Christmas we all spent together!!!!

I have no way of contacting you.

You don’t respond to social media or phone calls or texts.

I have now lost count of the Christmas’s  gone by without seeing or hearing from you.

I think about you all every day especially at Christmas.

I will be sharing my special day (Birthday & Christmas 25th December 2015) with wonderful friends, I hope your day will be extra special with whoever you are sharing it with.

I have wonderful memories from when you where children, and I have saved all the Christmas cards you made for me as children which remind me of the wonderful relationship we once had!!!!

May all your dreams come true and I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and healthy and happy new year.

Mum xxxxxx

amy 2 and half







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Happy Birthday Dean


I hope you have a wonderful birthday wherever you may be in the world.

The last time we celebrated your birthday together was over 25 years ago on your 13th Birthday.

So many happy memories.


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Happy Birthday Grandson

To my grandson.

I hope you have a wonderful birthday, filled with laughter and happiness. I wish I could be there to share it with you.

I have a special box with all your presents I cannot give to you in person which I will save for you.

One day when you come to see me I will be able to share all those special presents, photos and memories I have saved for you.

Have a lovely day

Grandma x


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Happy Holidays

The holiday season is almost upon us.

I am taking some time off to enjoy the sun, sea and sand!!!

I hope my children and grandchildren will be doing something special and enjoying the holidays.


To all alienated children, grandchildren and alienated parents and grandparents everywhere


I may be back later in the year.

Be Happy!



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Happy Birthday Lily

Happy Birthday 1st birthday to my granddaughter I have never seen.

I think about you everyday and wonder what you look like and hope you are contented and happy.

I have a box for you and your brother which contains cards and presents I am unable to send for every birthday and Christmas I have been excluded from, so maybe one day when you are older you will see that you are always in my thoughts.

Love Grandma xxxxxx