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Are you a victim? Do you want to stay that way?

While it’s true that many parents of estranged adults have been victimized, that doesn’t mean a parent must remain a victim. This moves us to the third category of coping I’ve created here:Successful participation.

None of these conscious coping strategies is wrong, but consider which one appeals to you.How have you coped in the past? How do you want to cope?

It’s up to each of us to decide whether we will learn to cope in practical ways that help us get past the pain, foster our growth, and advance us forward in our own happy lives.

read the full article on this website:-Are you a victim? Do you want to stay that way?

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Estranged Adult Children Part 1 of 2

Some great advice!

DON’T BEAT YOURSELF UP, AS PARENTS WE MAKE MISTAKES. FORGIVE YOURSELF AND MOVE ON! IF YOU KNOW YOU TRIED TO RECONNECT WITH YOUR KIDS AND THEY SAID NO, YOU CAN GO TO YOUR GRAVE KNOWING YOU CARED ENOUGH TO TRY, THEY CANNOT, AND THAT IS THEIR BURDEN TO CARRY, NOT YOURS, NOT YOURS, NOT YOURS!!!!!!