Well the alienators mask has finally slipped bigtime!!!
After spending another wonderful 10 day reunited with my daughter and grandchildren the truth is eventually beginning to surface, slowly in their own good time. Even my grandson at ripe old age of 13 can see and recognise the alienating behaviours that the family has had to endure.
So many twisted stories, so many lies, so many manipulated friends and family, it is all beginning to unravel.
I try not to mention the past and leave my daughter to unleash the past at her own pace, it saddens me to hear of some of the tragic events that have happened in her life. She has been living this life for so long without any intervention from family and friends that she thought it was normal behaviour!!!!!!! This is the consequence of manipulation and isolation from family and loved ones.
I am so disappointed with people who thought they knew better and accused me, people who I thought loved me and my children who cared, an all familiar story when it comes to PA. This could all have been prevented if just one of them would have had the courage to stand up to the alienator and talk to my children and grandchildren and tell them that their mother loves them and always will.
But now we are moving on at a rapid pace and experiencing normal happy times, my daughter is just beginning to realise what family life should be. It is wonderful to see her blossom into the strong beautiful parent and daughter she is, I am so proud of her courage and determination to move on with her life with grace and dignity.
She is still that loving little girl I remembered, a bit battle-scarred and suspicious but with love and support she will find her way.
So my message is Never Ever give up hope, you never know what the future holds. Stay strong, stay healthy, speak out, let them know you are there for them. Use social media, letters, emails, billboards, anyone you know who can get your message across.
NEVER EVER GIVE UP