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What drives the Parental Alienator for 25 years and more??

Shamelessness?

Arrogance?

Envy?

Entitlement?

Exploitation?

Linda Turner says:

Hello Karen, I have read and reblogged many of your posts but still fail to understand how and why a parent can continue with PA for over 25 years.

What is the motivation?

What drives them when they have what they want?

I have read many articles from alienated adult children who claim they still loved the target parent throughout the whole ordeal – so why let it continue for so many years?

How do alienated adults they break away?

The underlying question has to be  “WHAT DRIVES AN ALIENATOR WHEN THEY HAVE POSSESSION OF THE CHILDREN/ADULT CHILDREN/GRANDCHILD?”

  1. karenwoodall says:

    one simple answer Linda, disordered mind of some kind, either personality disorder, psychiatric disorder or disorder in the transgenerational parenting pattersn which has been normalised and so is not see as odd. Sometimes a repetetive pattern of behaviour in the aligned parent – in the child – simple terrorism, awareness that if they reunite they will be cast out – and a deep sense of terror that if that happens they will die. This is terrorism of the mind which happens early in life and which holds the child/adult captive – sometimes forever sadly

    https://karenwoodall.wordpress.com/2015/08/10/blinded-by-the-light/#comment-10377

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