Natural Born Liars – Parental Alienation

How does narcissism affect family?

June 11, 2021June 11, 2021 by Linda Turner, posted in Alienated children, Alienation, Narcissism, Narcopath, Natural Born Liars

In narcissistic families, this hierarchy is non-existent; the children are there to serve parental needs. Lack of Emotional Tune-In. Narcissistic parents lack the ability to emotionally tune in to their kids. They cannot feel and show empathy or unconditional love.

The narcissistic family hides profound pain.

Such families tend to operate according to an unspoken set of rules. Children learn to live with those rules, but never stop being confused and pained by them, for these rules block their emotional access to their parents. They basically become invisible—neither heard, seen, or nurtured. Conversely, and tragically, this set of rules allows the parents to have no boundaries with the children and to use (or abuse) them as they see fit.

The following are some common dynamics of this profoundly dysfunctional intergenerational system. (Keep in mind there are always degrees of dysfunction on a spectrum depending on the level of narcissism in the parents.)

Secrets. The family secret is that the parents are not meeting the children’s emotional needs, or that they are abusive in some way. This is the norm in the narcissistic family. The message to the children: “Don’t tell the outside world—pretend everything is fine.”

The Narcissistic Family Tree | Psychology Today

Catfishing

May 18, 2021May 18, 2021 by Linda Turner, posted in Alienation, Narcissism, Narcopath, Natural Born Liars, NLP

Catfishing — luring someone into an online relationship by creating a fake profile — is not in itself a crime. The MTV series (you can watch it via Now TV or Amazon Prime) shows countless examples of women who are tricked into sending intimate photos to seemingly attractive men they’ve met online. When tracked down and confronted by the show’s presenters, the perpetrators turn out to be nothing like their profile pictures, which have been harvested online.

https://www.ft.com/content/debe7f84-48d9-4105-961b-f929be7296d3

How to spot a catfish!

May 18, 2021May 18, 2021 by Linda Turner, posted in Alienation, Narcissism, Narcopath, Natural Born Liars, NLP

Catfishing is when someone sets up a fake online profile to trick people who are looking for love, usually to get money out of them. If you’re online dating, read these tips so you know how to spot a catfish.

https://www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/money-legal/scams-fraud/how-to-spot-a-catfish/

All women are s****

February 2, 2017April 21, 2020 by Linda Turner, posted in Alienation, Natural Born Liars

Natural Born Liars

A insight to what goes on behind closed doors during Parental Alienation

A story based on true facts during a battle which has lasted over 27 years and continues up until this day.

These are not from memories 27 years later, the events were contemporaneously scripted at the time and have been stored for reference.

All names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons involved.

A snippet from the new book titled #NaturalBornLiars ©Linda Turner

All women are slags

In Krams world all women are slags, mothers, daughters, girlfriends, wives and grandmothers. The word was often used in his families household.

Most intelligent women could see Kram for the fake he really was, but if they did not succumb to his narcissistic charms they would be labelled “Slag”.

One day May and her friend in all their innocence at the age of twelve, decided to go into town and get some business cards printed at the local card machine in town.

They thought it would just be a bit of fun to hand around to their friends.May was absolutely stunned and confused when the cards were discovered to be accused of being a “Slag”.

Its no wonder every time I called Edan on the telephone the only words that often spilled from his mouth were “what do you want slag” .The word slag had become so popular in the Kram camp.

Collins English Dictionary:-

countable noun

Slag is used by some people to refer to a woman who they disapprove of because they thinkshe is sexually immoral.

[British, informal, offensive, disapproval]

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#NaturalBornLiars

January 27, 2017April 24, 2020 by Linda Turner, posted in Alienated children, Alienation, Drug Abuse, Natural Born Liars, Parental Alienation PA

A snippet from the new book titled #NaturalBornLiars ©Linda Turner

I will never forget the day my daughter and husband walked through the front door, my daughter with that mischievous look on her face!

Then out of her mouth came those immortal words “I am having a new mummy, and she makes much nicer lasagne than you”

I could not believe it, I had tolerated my husbands promiscuous behavior for many, many years, but always tried to protect the children.

Years of witnessing groping women at parties, staying out all night with the lads, it was the way he was made, and things would never change, but I always managed to hide the true facts from friends and family.

I had stayed with him much longer than I should have done, but I was determined not to make the same mistakes as my mother and keep the family together.

He had spent weeks crouching on the floor, shaking, acting weird, I knew something was wrong but my first thoughts had been drugs, due to the company he was keeping.

But this was a step too far.

Nearly finished, soon to be published.

A Pathological Liar Is Made, Not Born

January 4, 2017January 7, 2017 by Linda Turner, posted in Alienation, Natural Born Liars, Pathological Lying

While some data exist that point to nervous-system dysfunction in 40 percent of compulsive liars, and other research implicates deficiencies in intelligence or home-life stability as the probable causes, Forman argues these claims are mostly specious.

Pseudologia fantastica has not been reviewed in the English literature in over 50 years, but the term is still used, for example, among the diagnostic criteria for the Munchausen syndrome. Based upon a review of 72 cases of pseudologia fantastica collected from 26 reports since its initial description in 1891, pseudologia is distinguished from other types of lying. Pseudologia fantastica is typified by these characteristics: (1) the stories are not entirely improbable and are often built upon a matrix of truth; (2) the stories are enduring; (3) the stories are not told for personal profit per se and have a self-aggrandizing quality; and (4) they are distinct from delusions in that the person when confronted with facts can acknowledge these falsehoods. The authors compile phenomenological data about “the pseudolouge”, who is represented equally males and females. Intelligence varies, but at least 40% have evidence of central nervous system dysfunction. The authors suggest that disease simulation, peregrination, and imposture are secondary behavioral manifestations of pseudologia, which is deserving of additional study.

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1600-0447.1988.tb05068.x/abstract