Category: Custody

Posted in Child Custody Rights, Custody

Who Is More Likely to Get Custody: a Mother or a Father?

Posted on by Linda Turner

What is the mental and physical health history of each parent?

How old is the child, what is the state of the child’s physical/mental health, and (if old enough) does the child have any preference?

What is each parent’s job? What are their personal habits, both good and bad (e.g., clean, healthy, excessive drinking, history of violence)?

Does the child have a particularly strong emotional bond with either parent? How likely is that parent to foster an emotional bond between the child and the other parent?

Will the child have to adjust to a new school, city, quality of life, and friends if living with one parent versus the other?

https://www.hg.org/legal-articles/who-is-more-likely-to-get-custody-a-mother-or-a-father-31386

Posted in Alienated children, Alienation, Custody, Divorce, Parental Alienation PA

Erasing Family Documentary About Child Custody After Divorce

Posted on by Linda Turner

The film follows young adults fighting to reunite with their broken families. It took years for the filmmakers to find young adults willing to go on camera to tell their stories as many did not want to talk about being brainwashed to hate a parent after a divorce, due to shame. Family courts are often overwhelmed with cases, and few protocols exist to help these families, forcing them to fight for custody instead of helping them to be co-parents. Yet there is a happy ending as these broken families are being reunited on screen, which will inspire other children to reach out to their own erased parents. It also highlights how showing the reforms to make separation of the parents healthier is urgently needed.

“Joint Custody is still not the norm, and many bar associations oppose making it the default option as there is a lot of money to be made in custody battles,” said Gentile. “Right now, only one state, Kentucky, has such a law passed in 2018.” Continue reading “Erasing Family Documentary About Child Custody After Divorce” →

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JOINT CUSTODY WHICH CHANGED AFTER THE RESIDENCY ORDER.

Posted on by Linda Turner

JOINT CUSTODY WHICH CHANGED AFTER THE RESIDENCY ORDER.

My ex went for a residence order to enable him to take the children on holiday without my permission, he then used the residency order to move back into the marital home we had lived in for 12 years in Edlesborough, and basically take over. Eventually I was forced to leave after being pushed through a glass door. I was then refused access to my children, by visits, letter, phone or any other means, even at Christmas and birthdays.

The only time I had contact with them was for 6 weeks through social services who were completely fooled by his charade. The children were groomed for each session with the social worker. My daughter actually admitted to this years 10 years later and also added that her father actually dated the social worker to win her over!!!

She also claimed they were terrified of the repercussions before and after each session with the social worker.

He never ever did take them on holiday; however he would go on holiday with various girlfriends leaving the children with his relatives!!!!

Speaks volumes – what a sad upbringing my children had, very different from what they would have had if he had been mature and adult enough to give the children the love they deserved.

More information on residency orders which came into play in 1990 when I was going through my divorce https://www.gov.uk/looking-after-children-divorce/types-of-court-order

Residency Orders – Not to be recommended as they can be abused in the wrong hands

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RESIDENCE ORDERS- Dont go there!

Posted on by Linda Turner

Source: RESIDENCE ORDERS- Dont go there!

JOINT CUSTODY WHICH CHANGED AFTER THE RESIDENCY ORDER.

My ex went for a residence order to enable him to take the children on holiday without my permission, he then used the residency order to move back into the marital home we had lived in for 12 years in Edlesborough, and basically take over. Eventually I was forced to leave after being pushed through a glass door. I was then refused access to my children, by visits, letter, phone or any other means, even at Christmas and birthdays.

The only time I had contact with them was for 6 weeks through social services who were completely fooled by his charade. The children were groomed for each session with the social worker. My daughter actually admitted to this years 10 years later and also added that her father actually dated the social worker to win her over!!!

She also claimed they were terrified of the repercussions before and after each session with the social worker.

He never ever did take them on holiday; however he would go on holiday with various girlfriends leaving the children with his relatives!!!!

Speaks volumes – what a sad upbringing my children had, very different from what they would have had if he had been mature and adult enough to give the children the love they deserved.

More information on residency orders which came into play in 1990 when I was going through my divorce https://www.gov.uk/looking-after-children-divorce/types-of-court-order

Residency Orders – Not to be recommended as they can be abused in the wrong hands

Posted in Childrens Act 1989, Custody

PAS – A Court Takes A Tougher Stand

Posted on by Linda Turner

Sorry to be cynical but if it is discovered that ParentalAlienation has been occurring and the court is actually doing something about it, then we are starting with a good precedent to make change – something that is so desperately needed. Be warned though, this is only the beginning. It will take an army to get change but a start, any start, is a good start.

http://thechangesforlife.blogspot.co.uk/2015/03/parental-alienation-court-takes-tougher.html