May was in and out of her mothers life like a Yo Yo!!
After not bothering for many years May decided to pay her mother a visit when she was 18. She wanted money for medical reasons, her mother happily gave her the money then was very quickly dumped.
The next occcassion was she needed money for her horse, again mother coughed up like parents do, and yes you guessed it dumped again.
This pattern continued for several years.
There was even one occasion when May turned up at her grandmothers house escorted by the Police for shoplifting, claiming that’s where she lived. grandmother told the officer she had not seen her for at least 10 years.
Spain – May wanted her things furniture and belongings shipped from Spain when she left for Australia. Mother paid 2,800 for shipment to her home where she had storage. May told everyone that mother had stolen the furniture and belongings after dumping her yet again!!!
Australia – wanted money to invest in a horse that was having a prize winning foal. Discovered years later the horse was on loan and not even her horse. Mother never had a return on her investment and May knew she wouldn’t. – not seen for several years after.
Bournemouth – May needed money again to pay huge livery bills she had run up, mother paid again and was swiftly dumped.
Spain to UK – Mays horses and the family dog had been left in Spain and again May had run up huge debts even though her husband was giving her plenty of money to pay for her extravagant lifestyle of nannies, cleaners etc etc. When she had bled her husband dry, and her father refused to pay, it was mother who put her hand in her pocket and paid for her and her daughters horse and all the kennel fees for the dog to be returned to the UK. She told her friends she had paid for it!!!!
Yes you know how the story goes…….
USE AND ABUSE NO MORE –
Mother had had enough – she was no longer desperate to see her daughter just to be financially abused over and over again.
Mother did not take it personally because it was the way May was with everyone who came into her life!
Mother felt sorry for anyone who came Mays way, they would be left broke and high and dry.