In real life, people who are prone to physical or psychological violence don’t look like negative movie characters. They often appear polite, nice, and even vulnerable. But as soon as such people feel they have power over others, they show their destructive nature. There’s only one way out: you have to run away!
How can you know?
Ask your partner about their past relationships. If they say no good words about their ex-partners, you probably are dating an abuser. Such people are too jealous, they always control their partners, they impose their help, and never admit when they’re wrong.