Using other people to get to you

Beware of the hoover by proxy, which can happen when your ex plays the victim and tries to get other people to reach out to you on their behalf. 

Some ways they may do this include:

  • regularly chatting with your parents and telling them how much they miss you
  • telling mutual friends how great you are and how they regret letting you go
  • using your child as an intermediary by getting them to relay messages back to you

https://www.healthline.com/health/hoovering#using-others

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