Parental Alienation is real.

I don’t want people coming into this world of Parental Alienation to find the no mans land I found. I started this work, and I stay in this work, because how we deal with and talk about parental alienation matters. How we talk about love matters. And how we talk to each other – matters.

I’m proud to be part of the parental alienation rebellion. I was one of the founder members of NAAP – National Association of Alienated Parents and I now run my own therapy business.

I am a fully qualified EMDR, NLP and CBT practitioner and also work with Hypnotherapy.


Parental Alienation is real. It devastates and destroys. Since starting my website 6 years ago more and more children, grown-up children, and targeted parents are coming forward to speak about their pain. “The long-term implications [of alienation] are pretty severe,” says Amy J. L. Baker, Ph.D nationally recognized expert in parent child relationships, parental alienation syndrome, and emotional abuse of children. There are two distinct aspects of PA; medical and legal. Medically PA is a form of emotional child abuse, Legally PA is recognised as a behavior pattern but often goes under other names such as ‘Coaching, Prejudicing, Rehearsing’ and synonyms of brainwashing.

‘Parental Alienation’ is emotional child abuse. The Health department has no clear definition of what ’emotional abuse’ is. Although recognised by the courts it is rarely acted upon because as a form of emotional abuse it is very difficult to define, and would require bringing in Social Services.

One of the tell-tale signs of Parental Alienation is when the alienating parent prevents the children from having any relationship with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins on the target parent’s side

The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child Article 9 (separation from parents) states that Children must not be separated from their parents against their will unless it is in their best interests (for example, if a parent is hurting or neglecting a child).Children whose parents have separated have the right to stay in contact with both parents, unless this could cause them harm.

That endless search for real support and understanding, with all its dead ends and wrong turns and disappointments, is why I do the work I do.

So if you ask yourself
‘Why do I feel so bad?’,

Your mind will find lots of answers and you will feel worse.
WITH NLP THE KEY IS TO ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS,
FOR EXAMPLE:
Why do I want to change?
What will life be like when I have changed?
What do I need to do more/less of in order to change?

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