When you finally discover the truth
When you discover your adult child has been using you and abusing you behind your back for several years.
When you discover all the lies they have told people about you.
When you are told the truth about the vindictive, malicious things they have done to you.
When you discover they have been lying and manipulating you for years and have the audacity to accuse you!
When you finally discover the TRUTH. 11.11