As I heal I am learning that I don’t miss “some” people.
I have learned, during time spent in introspection, that the people I don’t “miss” are the ones that have / had a track record of “using me”.
- Those people who whenever I was with them, I came away feeling emotionally drained.
- Those who left me feeling exhausted and I felt relief to get away from!
- Those where the time apart is restorative and so I remained relieved not having to deal with them.
Those are the people that I have discovered that I don’t miss them when I don’t see them. Not only that when I do think about them I feel this negative shudder about anticipating seeing them any time soon.
Renate Dundys Marrello 2019 – 01 – 18