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12 Steps to Rekindle a Marriage After Separation | Marriage.com

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So you find yourself in that scary place called separation and perhaps you are wondering how to rekindle a marriage after separation.

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Women’s Relationships Today Follow A Very Predictable Pattern:

  • They push males for commitment
  • They get what they want
  • They lose interest in sex
  • They become attracted to someone else
  • They start cheating
  • THEY EXPERIENCE AN IDENTITY CRISIS
  • They become angry and resentful
  • They begin telling their partners that they need time apart 
  • They blame their partners for their behavior…and eventually, after a long time of vacillating back and forth and several failed attempts to give up their affairs, they end their relationships or marriages.           

Betrayed Husband…

If you’re a man, like most men, you probably didn’t see your wife’s affair coming, not only because of your wife’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife is a “good girl.” In fact, up until very recently, men were regularly divorced by their wives without ever knowing about their wives’ affairs and infidelities.

Woman In Limbo…

If you’re a woman, like most women, prior to cheating on your husband, you always proclaimed yourself to be “not the type” who would ever cheat.  However, also like most women, AFTER they’ve cheated, you’re shocked and disturbed by your behavior; but at the same time —you can’t stop cheating — or — let go of the idea of a new relationship

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8 tips on marriage reconciliation after separation – survive the separation

Learn to say sorry:

If you decide to walk the path of reconciliation, it is a must that let go of pain and anger. Be aware that forgiving, being opening to change, and rebuilding trust are three essential ingredients of marriage reconciliation after separation. It is often the case that one spouse says heartbreak words to the other one on an impulse, that prompts the other’s thought of divorce and then the other does indeed takes action towards getting those divorce papers; but as a consequence, the hasty actions put each other out on a limp, and the couple will regret it sooner or later; beyond question, any impulsive decision is invariably harmful; so if you admit that you ever separated from your spouse on the spur of the moment, you should learn to use your sincere apology to heal your emotional trauma that has been left untreated before.

Like a lot of people, if you also find it difficult to apologize and admit err and wrongdoing in front of your spouse, you have to change your mindset; apology should be viewed as an essential part of a healthy marriage. Apologizing to your spouse when appropriate can promote forgiveness, validate your spouse’s feelings, and allow you two to move on from the unpleasant past.

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How to Reconcile a Marriage After Separation

How is reconciliation possible?

To answer the question, yes divorced couples can even reconcile even after a rough divorce or getting separated. In fact, if a couple decides to seek counselors or lawyers, they don’t suggest divorce immediately. They ask if the couple would be willing to take marriage counseling or even a trial separation. Just to test the waters and give them time to re-think their decisions. However, even in the chances that they do proceed with the divorce, no one can really say where this is going.

While some couples decide to separate while waiting for divorce negotiations to take place, what really happens is that they get time off from each other. As anger subsides, time will also heal wounds and in the process of divorce may come personal development and self-realization.

If you have children, the bond that you have is stronger and for their sake — you’d begin to ask if there is another chance. From there, some couples begin to talk; they begin the process of healing and grow from the mistakes they made. That is the start of hope, a glimpse of that love asking for a second chance.

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Treading Carefully: Getting Back Together After Separation

Is it possible to get back with an ex?

Occasionally and against the odds, some couples are able to regroup, retool, and experience some reconciliation after separation.

Getting back together after a separation statistics corroborate that in failed marriages, while 87% of the couples finally call it quits and head for a divorce, the remaining 13% still call it a truce and reconcile post-separation.

Moving back in after separation and reuniting with your spouse post temporary dissolution of marriage or a trial separation, is the ultimate aim that most of the estranged couples are hoping for.

That is the date that is marked as an eventful day shrouded with a lot of anticipation.  

But as the day of getting back with an ex approaches there are so many apprehensions surrounding the reconciliation that this might be the last shot at resolving important issues and moving to reconcile with the spouse. 

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Early life experiences biologically and functionally mature the brain, research shows

The results showed that it does as both context and object location experiences matured the brain at both biological and functional levels. Overall, in fact, researchers found that the episodic experiences of the young mice and rats led to unique biological changes, specifically indicating maturation in the hippocampus—a region critical for episodic memory formation. However, they did not find the same changes in older mice and rats.

Furthermore, they saw that with each type of learning, context or object location, the infant animal matured its performance and became capable of remembering long-term, more like an older animal does.

The team’s second question was: Does the maturation produced by one type of experience develop the entire memory system and all its abilities? Or is the maturation selective for the type of experience that the animal had?https://medicalxpress.com/news/2020-02-early-life-biologically-functionally-mature.amp