reasons why seeking revenge is a bad idea
When someone hurts or betrays you, you might feel the urge to cause them distress in return, but take it from us – that is never a good idea.
Here are 7 reasons why seeking revenge is a bad idea:
It won’t make you feel better.
In fact…it might make you feel worse.
I hate to break it to you, but if you consider yourself to be a decent human being, causing someone else distress or pain (whether you think they are deserving of it or not) might not put the smile on your face you were hoping for. In fact, it might make you feel worse; you might feel guilty, upset, regretful – and these kinds of feelings tend to linger and weigh heavy on your conscience. While you might feel hurt or betrayed right now, eventually you will be able to put those feelings behind you, but if you burden your conscience with guilt, you are more likely to ruminate over your actions – this makes moving on much harder and only puts your life on hold.
It could backfire.
Gandhi once said, “An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”
You are wasting precious time.
Not to sound cliche but life is short!
Whether you believe in it or not, karma makes a much better friend than foe – make sure to keep on the right side of it:
Two wrongs don’t make a right.
Fact. Seeking revenge isn’t going to undo the actions of the person who has wronged you. So do the right thing, be the bigger person – you will be glad you did so in the long run.
You could get caught in an endless revenge loop.
So, you seek revenge on the person who hurt you. They then take revenge on your revenge…and the cycle continues. Make sure you don’t get caught in a loop, it will only cause you further pain and hurt. Try and leave negativity and people who bring you down in the past. They are not worth your time and energy.