Narcissists have a habit of accusing others of doing what, in fact, the narcissist is doing. For example, unreliable narcissists will tell you that you are letting them down. Narcissists who frequently lie will accuse others of being untrustworthy. Rageful narcissists will tell you that you’re the one who needs anger management.
Generally narcissists are unaware of such hypocrisies. They accuse in an instant, then come to increasingly believe their accusations. Doing so allows them to avoid responsibility for their dysfunctional behavior while putting others on the defensive.
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