A predator doesn’t waste time with small talk. He will jump right into your personal physical, spiritual, and emotional spaces. He has an agenda which includes finding your strengths to exploit and your weaknesses to prey upon. The predator does not care about your past relationships, your standards or your values. He interrogates you to learn how to create an image of what you want in a man in order to gain your trust so that he’ll eventually get what he wants.
What a bad man offers is abuse and harassment.