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ASPD – Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying Monkeys — Oh My! (TM)

Typically “psychos” are the more volatile of the two subset ASPD personality types. It is important to note that the DSMV does not differentiate between Sociopaths, Psychopaths, Narcopaths, or Dark Triads — all the definitions of which are currently being investigated as stand-alone types.

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Sociopathic Stare – Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying Monkeys — Oh My!

Predators who have adapted to hide and thrive among their prey with no person or peer group ever able to shake the trauma bonding holds they groom into their preferred scapegoat targets. One in 25 humans present and living statistically — many times publicly respected and lauded but in private brutalizing their captive children and psychologically and emotionally profoundly codependent thinkers — among us.

Predators who desire to shun and isolate or to torment others they hunt for fun and sport socially. Witness tampering is the ultimate legal goal but the destruction of social reputation and health of a victim of Narcissistic abuse is the emotionally irrational person’s sadistic and gluttonous desire.

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Enough is never enough for a Glutton – Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying

Predators who have adapted to hide and thrive among their prey with no person or peer group ever able to shake the trauma bonding holds they groom into their preferred scapegoat targets. One in 25 humans present and living statistically — many times publicly respected and lauded but in private brutalizing their captive children and psychologically and emotionally profoundly codependent thinkers — among us.

Predators who desire to shun and isolate or to torment others they hunt for fun and sport socially. Witness tampering is the ultimate legal goal but the destruction of social reputation and health of a victim of Narcissistic abuse is the emotionally irrational person’s sadistic and gluttonous desire.

Source: Enough is never enough for a Glutton – Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying

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How Narcissists Play the Victim and Twist the Story

Narcissists can’t deal with reality because it contradicts what they want to be true, and this creates painful emotions. As a coping mechanism, they learn to delude themselves that what is real is actually not real, and however they see the situation is real, even though it isn’t.

Sometimes they truly see it that way. Other times it’s just a story they tell themselves and others. And often the longer you tell a story, the more you believe it, even if initially you know it’s not true. And so eventually they may start truly believing it.

Either way, the first step is to create a version of events that is an alternative to what actually happened or what’s going on.

People with strong narcissistic tendencies are known for certain destructive social patterns. Anybody who has had the misfortune of dealing with these types of people may notice that whenever there’s a conflict or any type of disagreement, they tend…

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Never take an abusive or ‘Narcissistic’ person to counseling with

If you suspect that a person you are dealing with has a Cluster B personality disorder like Anti-Social Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, or any form of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, it is crucial to downplay your interest in working with a counselor, mentor, or spiritual adviser. It’s even more important to keep them out (yes, we said out) of your therapy sessions.

Why?

Because toxic people with Cluster B symptomatically will use your candid admissions against you without hesitation or mercy. Trying to make intellectual headway with one or fleeing a persistent stalker is very much so like striving to reason with and show compassion for a robotic Terminator.

Unable to control their impulses to pathologically lie, meddle, mislead, manufacture chaos, and harm others to derive their own sense of “peace”, they delight in misleading those seeking to help.

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Sociopath Stare and Psychopath Eyes major red flags of personality disorder

When a Sociopath stares, it is known as giving people “The Look”. It’s a true psychological predictor of Anti-Social tendencies, known as the “Sociopathic Stare” in self-help and academic themed psychology circles.

All people with traits of Anti-Social Personality Disorder tend to give other people the look or sociopathic stare for a variety of reasons but in most cases, it’s typically related to asserting their predatory nature as self-perceived pack animals.

But only those who intellectually or physically consider themselves to be dominant tend to make the predatory stare a psychic calling card of sorts while compulsively striving to enmesh with prey.

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Narcissistic people use denial as a brainwashing technique

What is denial? More importantly, what is Denial — the psychological term for openly denying have done, thought, or said something to another human being (especially in such a way that it provokes a triggering response from a target).

To bait or provoke then wait for a response is considered antagonistic; it is a truly offensive move (pun intended) on the football field of life, aggressively initiating an attack on a rival before they have even been informed that they are expected to participate in game playing the abusive personality already — while striving to dominate while attention-seeking — already started.

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How to spot a Collapsed Narcissist

He who shall not be named is a homegrown terrorist of the Archie Bunker, psychic vampire type. J.K. Rowling got it right.

A narcissistic, egocentric, grandiose blame shifter who fails to value or appreciate human traits like kindness, goodwill, or emotional sensitivity to other people’s needs while being fiercely envious of happy people, their goal is to target those they simultaneously envy and despise.

Their overwhelming sense of POOR ME coupled with Cartman’s style “I do what I WANT!” contemptuous arrogance cannot be denied.

Source: How to spot a Collapsed Narcissist

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Be gentle with your partner

It is also a common misperception that you can tack on the words “I feel” in front of a statement. For example, “I feel like you are taking me for granted.” That is just a “you-statement” in disguise. It implies blame. And there is no actual emotion being expressed.

Lastly, make it a point to care for your partner by trying to see his or her point of view.

We tend to think that the way we view the world is the way the world really is. And when our partners disagree with us, it’s easy to think that they are the ones who are misinformed or have a distorted perception of reality. How else could they see things so differently?

But failing to understand that each individual is entitled to his or her own point of view is failing to appreciate what makes the other person who they really are. After all, you both are two unique individuals, with two unique backgrounds and life experiences that help form two unique perspectives. And those perspectives should be respected and valued.

Learning not only to recognize, but to appreciate your partner’s perspective may be challenging at times. But with discipline, practice and emotional maturity, you will be able to find new ways of understanding your partner’s point of view. And by doing so, you will not only find that you can enrich your vision of reality, but that you can create a new level of intimacy in your relationship.

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Top 10 Reasons Relationships Fail | Psychology Today

Trust Issues

Lack or loss of trust is one of the most harmful contagions to a couple’s long-term success. Without trust, a relationship misses two of the key anchors to a strong bond: safety and security.

Trust issues may include factors such as jealousy, possessiveness, unreasonable rigidity, emotional infidelity, physical/sexual infidelity, relational game playing, lack of reliability and dependability, lack of emotional support, lack of financial compatibility, and lack of mutually-supportive goals.

If you believe trust is a major issue in your relationship (or was in your former relationship), examine whether the lack of trust is based on a pattern of evidence (such as significant broken promises), or mostly subjective emotions (such as jealousy without proof). Consider honestly whether the lack of trust is based on tangible substance or unjustified fears.

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