Monthly Archives: December 2018

Projection: Narcissists’ Favorite Trick

Ah, projection. The fine art of making me guilty of your vices. Projection No one projects better or more frequently than a narcissist. They’ve practiced, honed and refined projection to a fine art. Whatever they’re up to, by some mental… Why Project? Guilt? Maybe. Envy of other’s innocence? Perhaps. Avoidance of the result of wrong-doing? […]

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What’s a Narcissist’s Punishment?

How Abusers Get Away with Their Behavior People with strong narcissistic, psychopathic, or sociopathic tendencies, abusers, manipulators, and otherwise harmful people tend to hurt others. Sometimes they do it overtly, even proudly, and in other cases it’s covert or maybe even unconscious. Sometimes it’s well planned and calculated, while other times it’s careless and reactionary. Sometimes […]

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Let them reap what they sow.

Here are some questions to ask yourself that will encourage you to set mature boundaries so that others can accept the consequences of their own actions: Ask yourself: Whose responsibility is this, really? Am I really serving this person by suffering the consequences of their actions for them? What will happen of this pattern continues […]

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How to Handle Adults Who Take No Responsibility for Their Actions

“You reap whatever you sow.” (Gal. 6:7) We have all heard about the law of reaping what you sow. It is much like the law of cause and effect. For instance, if you smoke, you most likely will suffer the harsh side effects such as cancer,… We all know the consequences of our actions, but […]

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‘intimate terrorism’: Parental alienation

The scene: a bitter divorce, and a custody battle over the couple’s 7-year-old son. Awarded full custody, the mother — perhaps seeking revenge? — sets out to destroy the son’s relationship with his father. The mother tells the son lies about the father’s behavior, plants seeds of doubt about his fitness as a parent, and […]

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Happy New Year 2019 a Fresh Start

that on this New Year’s Eve a miracle can occur. Tonight we ring out the old and ring in the new. And more–much more–can change than simply the dates on the calendar. You can resolve this night to change your entire life…or any aspect of your self and your experience that you choose. And should […]

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6 Dangerous Delusions Someone You Know Might Have

In other cases (especially in severe cases where there may be other psychotic symptoms such as hallucinations or disorganized thought patterns), the person lacks the control necessary to hide delusional thoughts and may begin to appear “psychologically unstable” to others. In other words, they begin to act out. When this acting out doesn’t happen, delusional […]

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Suicide and suicidal thoughts

I felt like I couldn’t speak to anyone about my mental health Your ignorance about mental illness inspires me to keep fighting World Suicide Prevention Day, 2018 Depression is not the same as having a bad day

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Article: A Nobel Prize-winning psychologist says most people don’t really want to be happy

A Nobel Prize-winning psychologist says most people don’t really want to be happy http://flip.it/lhajvj

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