Broken people live fractured lives and break others. Healthy people live healthy lives and heal others.
You will always reproduce the environment around you that you cultivate within you. In other words your internal reality will define your outward.
Many people have pain inside them that hasn’t been dealt with. The roots of these fractures could be traced all the way back to our conception. The circumstances of our birth and upbringing can cause us to believe lies about ourselves that keep us from the reality of our true identity. The result of these lies is that we develop patterns of behavior that are designed to protect us in a hostile world. We think we have to do whatever it takes to kill the pain and simply survive.