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5 Ways To Spot Someone With Hidden Motives

When you suspect that someone has hidden motives, you can feel anxious about dealing with them. In this article we will look at 5 ways to spot hidden motives and what you can do about preventing yourself from being manipulated.

YOU’RE PICKING UP SOME UNUSUAL BODY LANGUAGE AND EYE CONTACT

YOU HAVE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS AFTER SPEAKING TO THEM

THEY ALWAYS SEEM TO WANT THE SAME THING

USE OF TACTICS TO PERSUADE YOU

YOU ARE NOT THE FOCUS OF YOUR CONVERSATION

The manipulator may pretend to be interested in your personal life but somehow the conversation always returns to focus on them and their needs. Not just their needs, but what they need from you to get what they want.

Once you spot that the person you are dealing with has hidden motives, you can decide to stop dealing with them or tell them that you aren’t getting your needs met. Someone who is only self-focused will not listen to your needs, so it is probably best to avoid dealing with them at all.

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/5-ways-spot-someone-hidden-motives/

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Living the dream in SW France-Retired Love Swimming, Rambling, Labrador's, Pilates, Photography, Astronomy, Reiki, Travelling. Currently studying Psychology, and member of NAAP. I believe in truth, honesty, karma and integrity! KEEPING IT REAL - No one likes someone who lies and lives a different life on social media than they do in real life. ≧◔◡◔≦

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