Similar to criminals, alienators can adapt like a chameleon to be able to project the image of themselves and circumstances that puts them in the best light. The lack of centre allows them to seamlessly switch gears and convincingly cover doubts or redirect attention away from themselves when needed. It seems there are almost no limits to how far they will go to get what they want. Their focus is always on themselves, although they attempt to cleverly cloak it as concern for the child. But every action taken or comment made by someone else, is considered solely by how it affects the alienator, and no one else. Winning to fill their own need is their reason for being.