Posted in Parental Alienation & Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Betrayal-Oriented Attachment

  • Strong distrust of female sexuality. ‘Jokes’ belittling women’s sexuality.
  • Use of the four words, “wh*re, sl*t, b*tch, c*nt”, usually all together, especially during or just before a physical assault
  • A great anxiety over being abandoned for a different sexual interest.
  • Extreme and, to outsiders, illogical jealousy. Attempts to keep the partner from socializing with other men.
  • Increase in violence and conflict when the partner is pregnant or taking care of an infant. Most women that are eventually killed by their partner are killed either when they are ending the relationship or pregnant.
  • Doubting that a women’s child is his even with little reason to doubt.
  • A belief that women hate all men, and that women hate him. Of course, when any of his behavior is questioned, this is used as an excuse, but it seems to go deeper than just an excuse.
  • Not accepting that a partner has ended or can end the relationship, and so considering her seeing other men as “cheating.”
  • Excuses his actions as ‘reactions’ to betrayals that seem to keep happening.
  • Rapid change from a seeming good mood to strong upset when something ‘is out of place’ according to his criteria.

https://www.abuseandrelationships.org/Content/Origins/betrayal_attachment.html

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