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Why people ruin happy relationships –

Just like an addict, you might live with a subconscious awareness that you will inevitably destroy whatever good you might have – and that anxiety is the backdrop of every moment. And so you self-medicate the fear, work harder, try new ways to become a different person and cling more tightly to what you desperately want. When you do inevitably self-sabotage and act out in ways that betray your values and destroy the hearts of those you love, the experience is laden with soul-crushing shame. Like you just woke up inside a nightmare. This is in part because you have no idea why you’re doing it

https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/self-sabotage-why-people-ruin-happy-relationships/

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