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After betrayal

After a betrayal, many people experience shame. The “I should have known better” statements and guilt develops, and they are very difficult to silence. The self-critical thoughts only hurt the healing process. Because you were betrayed, it does not mean that you did something wrong or that you are foolish.

As mentioned before, healing takes a different amount of time for everyone. It is a process that cannot be rushed. Sometimes, the betrayal can actually make us better. Learning how to recover from trauma with dignity, class, and self-worth is a valuable skill to have. Focusing on your strength and resilience instead of the weakness and pain you might have felt, will allow you to develop a powerful sense of worth and develop a positive self esteem.

https://darlenequinn.net/2015/why-people-do-what-they-do-psychology-of-betrayal/

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Living the dream in SW France-Retired Love Swimming, Rambling, Labrador's, Pilates, Photography, Astronomy, Reiki, Travelling. Currently studying Psychology, and member of NAAP. I believe in truth, honesty, karma and integrity! KEEPING IT REAL - No one likes someone who lies and lives a different life on social media than they do in real life. ≧◔◡◔≦

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