Sometimes the action you take can be passive and that is OK. You can just leave the room, avoid this person, etc. But sometimes you cannot. In that case you have to confront. Confront might sound harsh, but confrontation might be as simple as saying “stop it.” or “don’t do that that.” Sometimes you cannot even say these things. And that is understandable. But one needs to know unless an action is taken to stop the abuse, it will probably continue.
- They are abusers. They target people with their abuse. Some target animals. Many target themselves. But most target other people. Why? because they at the moment they decide to abuse, they are sick. Sick personalities.
- You specifically were abused because they needed someone to abuse, they chose you, and you are not stopping them. Now before you start pointing fingers at me saying I am blaming the victim, I want to make it clear I am not. I am not blaming you for not stopping them. But the reason they were able to abuse you is that you did not or could not or chose not to stop them. This does not mean you are weak, vulnerable, have a weak personality or any of these things. So stop telling yourself that. It is as simple as you did not stop them. Maybe you could not. Maybe they are too powerful. Or…
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