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High status is sought such as “Godfather” or “Community Chair”.

High status is sought such as “Godfather” or “Community Chair”. The parents may pay for a plaque in their name, or give to charity again and again whilst they continue to be mean and uncharitable behind closed doors. On the one hand, those they seek to impress will believe they are affluent, whilst at home, they plead poverty lying about money, purchases, or expensive holidays booked. Any sibling who buys the lie, helping to fund the parents’ lifestyle or pay for their mistakes even as extreme as bankruptcy, is favoured over the one who refuses to collude with any farce. Punishment for real or potential exposure at being seen as less than perfect may result in the abused child being cut out not just of the parents’ lives, but also out of their will. The smallest request by the child will be met with resentment, unwillingness and a sarcastic put-down, another push towards inevitable breakdown.

https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/counsellor-articles/narcissistic-parents-adult-survivors-of-childhood-emotional-abuse

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