Are you experiencing any of the following?
Withhold communication with the grandchildren in the form of visits,phone calls, emails, letters, and/or post cards
Keep you from, or severely limit your ability to talk with or visit your grandchildren, with or without informing you of reasons
Avoid including you at holidays, birthdays, school functions, and/or social occasions
Grandchildren not allowed to express their feelings toward grandparents
Unusual behavior from the adult children toward the grandparent
Adult children may ignore your feelings, or make you feel uncomfortable
Grandparents feel their son or daughter has been brainwashed by his or her spouse
Grandparent feels the daughter-in-law or son-in-law speaks for their son or daughter
No approval or appreciation of what you do for your grandchildren or your adult children
Put you down, sometimes in the presence of grandchildren
Irrational behavior such as rage by an alienating parent (adult child) as he/she tries to drive you to accpet the situation in the crazy place where he/she is.