Posted in Parental Alienation & Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Rule no 3. Don’t be alone on Christmas day

Rule no 1. 

Rule no 2.

Rule no 3.

If you are unfortunate enough not to be able to see your children at all, make sure you have plenty to do and have people around you.

After 27 years of no contact (not by choice) with a couple of exceptions which my narcissist ex sabotaged by contacting Hertfordshire police with some bizarre story!!! I have learnt to be resourceful over the years.

Here are a few suggestions you could consider, its not too late to get organised:-

Volunteer | Crisis | Together we will end homelessness

Crisis at Christmas is a unique volunteer effort that provides immediate help for homeless people at a critical time of year. By volunteering with Crisis this Christmas you can make a real difference to people experiencing homelessness. Applications are open for London, with other regions opening shortly.

Hospital Volunteering | Royal Voluntary Service

Many volunteers find volunteering in healthcare is rewarding because you can see improvements in the patients you support. Our volunteers also provide are a respite from regular daily hospital life, a connection with the world outside and a friendly face to rely on.

Volunteer with us | Action for Children › How to help

Find out more about volunteering with Action for Children.

Volunteer with children and young people | The Children’s Society…/volunteer/volunteering-with-children-and-you…

 Over 600 volunteers work alongside our staff to directly support vulnerable children and young people in our services. You could be one of them.
Alternatively if you don’  feel like volunteering you can always find plenty of part time jobs during the festive season.

Christmas Staff Jobs, Employment |

Sep 9, 2017 – Christmas EveChristmas Day, Ash Wednesday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, active duty funerals). Must maintain a professional relationship with the Command.

Christmas jobs: Find a seasonal temp role at Argos, John Lewis, Boots … › Money › Jobs Centre

Oct 25, 2017 – Other places that aren’t actively hiring for Christmas, but have got jobs to fill include: House of Fraser annually hires around 1,000 workers at Christmas – see Currys and Carphone Warehouse are after thousands of temporary staff with a passion for tech. 

And last but not least, we all have someone living close by who will be on their own:-
Old people – Old people living on their own have a vast experience of life and have some interesting stories to tell. Well worth spending Christmas day with someone.
Divorced people – recently divorced people often spend time alone and would welcome some company or help with their children.
The list is endless. I know its tough but its just one day and its only temporary, and you may even enjoy it.
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Living the dream in SW France-Retired Love Swimming, Rambling, Labrador's, Pilates, Photography, Astronomy, Reiki, Travelling. Currently studying Psychology, and member of NAAP. I believe in truth, honesty, karma and integrity! KEEPING IT REAL - No one likes someone who lies and lives a different life on social media than they do in real life. ≧◔◡◔≦

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