Posted in Parental Alienation & Narcissistic Personality Disorder

The Power of the Independent Mind

An alienator alienates using exactly the same process as a cult leader. It goes like this.

  1. Take a vulnerable person who has been hurt and harmed and who feels misunderstood, or a vulnerable person without much power and tell them that they have been hurt and harmed and misunderstood.
  2. Reflect to that person your deep understanding of their hurt and harm and show them that they are understood.
  3. Love bomb them with lots and lots of understanding and care, share knowledge and help that person to feel that there IS an answer to their suffering.
  4. Focus upon the ‘truth’ which only the cult leader possesses and instruct the person regularly on how this truth will set them free.
  5. Strip the person of all of their connections to others in the world with different perspectives.
  6. Tell the person that the outside world is harmful and does not understand them and will only ever wish to hurt them.
  7. Instruct the person regularly on how to think and act and then eventually, prepare them to go out into the world to spread the word that the cult leader is the person who holds ‘the truth’ in their hands.
  8. Punish detractors who think for themselves with vengeful attack and shunning.
  9. Love bomb the followers to keep them in line.
  10. Use the followers as conduits to proselytise on behalf of the cult leader.



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