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The Toxic Adult Child…What Every Parent Needs To know!

One of five parents have experienced some form of the “Adult Toxic Child.”  This presentation focuses on dealing with the child(ren) who believe their problems to be caused by the inadequacy and insufficiency of their parents.  They believe life is miserable because their parents do not give them what they want and they blame them for everything in their past and for all their problems now.

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Instill healthy fear in bullies, narcissists

http://bulliesbegone.com/blog/2017/5/17/instill-healthy-fear-in-bullies-narcissists

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Forgiveness And Its Health Benefits

Source: Forgiveness And Its Health Benefits

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How to Be Assertive and Set Healthy Boundaries

Why are so many of us so accommodating, nice and conflict-averse in daily life? Often what belies niceness in the face of hostility is fear – fear of conflict. Permitting others to be offensive or aggressive, however, gives the message that they are entitled to treat us this way. If someone is rude to you, you should not feel obligated to put up with it. Continue reading “How to Be Assertive and Set Healthy Boundaries”

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Parental Alienation as a False Allegation

Karen Woodall

I have worked in many cases where parental alienation is featured and some where it is alleged but on investigation it is not present. In these cases, in which children actually are withdrawn from a parent, there are distinct features which allow us to determine that it is not parental alienation.  Unfortunately, in the investigation, it becomes apparent that the allegation of parental alienation is being used to either further control behaviours in the parent making it, or that the parent has some problems which are contributing to the child’s withdrawal. The common denominator in all of these cases are the behaviour of the parent from whom the child has withdrawn, which is often fixed and rigid in presentation and which escalates in determination that the other parent is to blame when one attempts to intervene.

Learning how to tell the real case of parental alienation from the alleged one…

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You Know You Are Healing From Complex Trauma – When You Don’t Internalise Toxic People’s Darkness ~ Lilly Hope Lucario

Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

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This toxic person – decided trolling a woman who has suffered so greatly, and then is grieving the death of her abusive mother – was the person to troll, abuse and harass. Which is a pretty disgusting thing for someone to do. But, that’s sadly how vile some people choose to be.

I always reflect on these situations – as to how I dealt with it and I am pleased with myself. I did not get remotely upset. I did not feel hurt or angry.

I just stepped back, looked at the actions of this toxic person, and placed the appropriate boundaries. I did not respond to her many emails. I did not react back. I’ve learned that toxic people don’t respond well to being told their actions are abusive.

And this is indeed – healing.

I no longer internalise toxic people’s darkness. That’s their shit to deal with.

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What type of parenting leads children to grow up with a NPD?

How Do Children Become Narcissists?

Narcissistic Personality Disorders are a byproduct of certain childhood family environments. All children want their parents’ approval and attention. Children adapt to their homes, and often the most productive and reasonable adaptation to some home situations is to become a Narcissist. Below are some common scenarios that can contribute to children becoming Narcissistic.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understanding-narcissism/201705/how-do-children-become-narcissists

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Are You The Family Symptom Bearer?

Source: Are You The Family Symptom Bearer?

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The past lives on.

Scientists Have Observed Epigenetic Memories Being Passed Down For 14 Generations

http://www.sciencealert.com/scientists-have-observed-epigenetic-memories-passed-down-for-14-generations#.WSxPGbKDhOo.link

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