A insight to what goes on behind closed doors during Parental Alienation
A story based on true facts during a battle which has lasted over 27 years and continues up until this day.
These are not from memories 27 years later, the events were contemporaneously scripted at the time and have been stored for reference.
All names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons involved.
My mother had always instilled into all of us the importance of always telling the truth, having empathy for others and to have integrity at all times.
She was kind and generous and took me and the children on holiday when I had no money, and made sure Christmas was full of the usual presents and food.
Whilst Kram and I were still married Kram was stupid enough to get sacked from his position at work for stealing, he was convinced at the time that his father was to blame as his father worked at the same place! Never quite sure what that was all about.
As usual Mum came to the rescue and bailed him out lending him a substantial amount of money in those days. A few months later we were due to move house, Edan was only two and May just couple of months old. On the day of exchange Kram had made a huge miscalculation in our finances (he was not the brightest button in the box) and we had a shortfall of two thousand pounds.The bank did not want to know and neither did his parents so back to mum again.
Mum had no hesitation in lending us the money so we could go ahead with the transaction, good old mum was always there to help us out financially.
Kram had a short memory, or maybe just a selective memory as he used every opportunity to talk about mum in a derogatory way and continuously tell me “your mother does not love you” that statement would be used over and over again and then came back to haunt me later when my son Edan wrote the very same statement on the bedroom wall.
History repeating itself.
The saddest thing of all is my mother recently passed away, that is one of the reasons it has taken me so long to write this book. I sent a card and private message to both Edan and May to let them know their grandmother had passed, I could see from the private message that the message was seen within five minutes of sending.
I waited and waited for a card, text or email from either of them showing their sympathy, sadly it never came!!!!!