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Lock up your daughters

 

Natural Born Liars

A insight to what goes on behind closed doors during Parental Alienation

A story based on true facts during a battle which has lasted over 27 years and continues up until this day.

These are not from memories 27 years later, the events were contemporaneously scripted at the time and have been stored for reference.

All names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons involved.

A snippet from the new book titled #NaturalBornLiars ©Linda Turner

I had been on my own for several months after the divorce when a good friend suggested I should get back into the social scene.

After what I had been fed for many years I felt unworthy, unloved, unattractive and thought no one would be interested in me. Many friends  had shied away due to the outrageous behavior of Kram and several ugly incidents that took place in the village after the divorce.

Every time anyone took any interest in me there would be a damaged car, roof slashed, tool kit removed or burning vehicle left outside someones property.On one occasion when I due in court, Kram parked by (now husband) my boyfriends office and threatened him. Krams words where “I dont care if I end up in Bedford prison”

Kram was very careful always to get someone else to do his dirty work, never him, always employees or lowlife friends.

My friend persuaded a very respectable local tennis coach to take me to a village party one evening, his wife had left many months ago, so why not?? He was one of the very few who was not afraid of Kram, he boldly knocked on the door one day and asked me out. I was very apprehensive and knew there would be repercussions but I had to get out there and life my life, after all I was only 33.

We got to know each other quite well and he knew Kram and what he was capable of.

I was quite shocked and disgusted when he told me that one evening after his daughter had been babysitting  Kram walked her back home as he had too much to drink to drive. Apparently even though she was only school age he said I will pay you extra if you give me a kiss, he then tried to make romantic/sexual advances.

You may be reading this thinking – “how awful for his children to read this” but this was minor compared to what my daughter told me several years later.

May was very proud of her father and loved the fact that her school friends found him attractive. She told me many years later that one evening when her friend went to the house for a sleepover, when she woke up, in the morning her friend was in bed with her father Kram!!!!!

I was almost sick with disgust when she told me, and I hoped it was just another one of her bizarre stories.

I asked her how it made her feel, and she smiled and said “all my friends fancied my dad, they think he’s lovely” she did not think there was a problem. When I responded saying it was disgusting she replied “you are only jealous”!!!!!

The more I discovered what happened in that house the worse it became.

A snippet from the new book titled #NaturalBornLiars ©Linda Turner

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Living the dream in SW France-Retired Love Swimming, Rambling, Labrador's, Pilates, Photography, Astronomy, Reiki, Travelling. Currently studying Psychology, and member of NAAP. I believe in truth, honesty, karma and integrity! KEEPING IT REAL - No one likes someone who lies and lives a different life on social media than they do in real life. ≧◔◡◔≦

5 thoughts on “Lock up your daughters

  1. Very disturbing! Kram sounds like a dangerous predator that was using his own daughter to lure other teen girls into the home for his own gratification 😦 Abusers are masters of manipulation and can coerce, charm, con and emotionally blackmail children into doing things they would not otherwise do… I cannot imagine the pain this child will have to deal with when she is ready to face what her father has done, and how he has cruelly used her to hurt those she cares about. ((Prayers))

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    1. Emily the saddest thing of all is my children will never be the same again, no amount of therapy can ever undo the damage. Social services would not get involved even though I had mediation for 6 weeks after the divorce.Local people just seem to turn a blind eye, unless they discovered it was their own daughter, then there would be an outcry.Thank you for you response, just waiting for the repercussions!!!! This post has received lots of attention.

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