A insight to what goes on behind closed doors during Parental Alienation
A story based on true facts during a battle which has lasted over 27 years and continues up until this day.
These are not from memories 27 years later, the events were contemporaneously scripted at the time and have been stored for reference.
All names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons involved.
Sleeping with the Enemy
Di had left Gus and was struggling to bring up three children on her own. Everyone I knew locally had abandoned me due to Krams public threatening outlandish behavior and I was spending many hours isolated in house on my own.
One day when I was at my lowest ebb Di knocked on the door and helped me spring back to my former self, we were friends for some time!!
It was close to Christmas and things were tough for Di so I loaned her some money, let her borrow my car, gave her some of my belongings to look after and use, kept her company evening and weekends, babysat for the three children and we often had evenings out together.
I drove my car to the house where I lived looking forward to giving my children their Christmas presents I had carefully chosen over the past few weeks. I had taken a job in Switzerland and would give my children some space to come round, just as the Bedfordshire Social Worker Mrs K had advised.
I still had the key to the front door as the financial settlement still had not been arranged and after all I did still own half of our house.
Upon entering the front door I heard a commotion and shouting and caught a brief glimpse of Edan and May running up the stairs, I quickly tried to follow them.
Kram got me in a powerful submission hold and said “the children do not want to see you”
I told him I only wanted to say goodbye and give them their Christmas presents and he said “they dont want anything from you”.
I was mortified and asked him to let go of me so I could leave.
How could someone be so cruel and unimpassioned.
I said my goodbyes in the New Year to Di before leaving for Switzerland. I made her swear to me that she would personally hand any letters I sent to my children by hand so Kram could not destroy them. I wanted my children to know that I loved them and would come back when they wanted to see me.
I loathed every day in Switzerland and missed the children desperately, I wrote them letters every single day in the hope that they would write back. Every day I would go to the post office to see if anything had been sent, nothing!
Three months was all I could stomach in Switzerland and on the way home I thought I would surprise Di and let my self into her house armed with gifts for her and her children.
I took the key from the usual place and let myself into Di’s kitchen. A neat stack of airmail letters where placed on the sideboard opened so I went to investigate. To my horror every single letter that should have been hand given to my children lay there open and exposed.
I felt the blood drain from my head, I was about to pass out, I felt betrayed, abandoned, victimized.
I left the house and got back into my car and just drove for miles.
I did not have anything to do with Di ever again. Several years later my son Edan told me he returned home from school one day and caught Di and Kram in bed together!
Two Narcissistic egos together, each with their own agenda.
- Hers – a mercenary one to secure herself a substantial property in the village.
- His – just another pawn to play with in his game of manipulation, control, lies and deception.
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