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Step out of the comfort zone!

Thought for today – Any person out there who witnesses PA, estrangement etc (whatever you like to call it) should step out of their comfort zone and tell the alienator of the damage they are doing, not only to the other person, but to themselves and their offspring. Anyone who stands by and says NOTHING is as guilty as those who alienate, they are cowardly and should be ashamed of themselves for witnessing it.!!!!


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Currently studying Psychotherapy , Cognitive psychology, Biological psychology, Counselling psychology and CBT and NLP. I believe in truth, honesty and integrity! ≧◔◡◔≦

3 thoughts on “Step out of the comfort zone!

  1. Actually, my PAlienator is quite a genius. He was proactive and destroyed my reputation before I could even get a word in. Compulsive liar, untrustworthy. I never saw it coming. So I never said anything. I didn’t want to participate in the conflict. I just walked away, said nothing. I lost a daughter but the other three adult children respect me more for it. In the end, I think the truth will come out. It’s already begun, though it’s been ten years. We can’t just blame the other parent. It’s our adult child’s choice, ultimately. I wish I could just blame him. But no. Ultimately it was her choice.


    1. Hello the goodmother9. I was exactly the same, its hard to belief that the person you married and had children with could possibly inflict this damage on your children. Friends and work colleagues advised me to expose him but I tried to hide some of his actions and outrageous behavior from the children at such an impressionable age thinking I was protecting them. The only person I appeared to be protecting was my ex. Looking back I was very stupid and naive, so glad there’s more info around these days. Yes you are right, they are adults now and they know the truth and it is there choice, but not so with my grandson. Thank you for taking the time to post, keep posting.

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