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ALIENATED KIDS LOVE THE TARGET PARENT!

Last post before Easter – May this blog give you all hope – HAPPY EASTER!!!!

winners and losers

Your kids deserve healthy relationships with both parents. If you’re trying to alienate your child from your ex for revenge or to make yourself the favourite parent, you’re hurting your child. You’re denying them healthy relationships with both parents.

And get this:

YOU WILL GET FOUND OUT.

YOU WON’T GET WAY WITH IT FOREVER.

Let me say this again: one day, your child will REALIZE what you have done. TRUST ME. They will know. It may take years, as with me, but they will work it out. Life experience will show them as they grow up watching interactions between people outside your family.

AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT.

You will get caught out.

If you’re lucky, they’ll forgive you but your relationship will never be the same again. They won’t trust YOU or love YOU in the same way ever again. If you’ve been rotten enough, you’ll never see them again.

At the very least, THEY’LL BE CLOSER TO THE OTHER PARENT!!! You will MAKE this happen yourself! By attempting to alienate them from your ex (or whoever), you will drive them into their arms in the end.

Take this from someone who knows. ME. I will never speak to my male parent again.

I thought the problems were all my fault: that I was the screw up. When one parent does their best to care for you, and the other one is acidic and merciless in their attack of that parent, causing you to doubt your own mind, your own memories and experience of that parent, what the hell are you supposed to do? I felt like I was out of my mind sometimes.

But I never was.

A counsellor told me the following: you’re not unstable, you were around unstable people.

NOW I know she was right, but I waited thirty years for those words. I thought I was evil and worthless and useless and ugly because of the words/lack of words of my parents. As I said previously, the alienator used every single situation he could find to denigrate my mother. She almost never said a word about him – so I believed him, not her. He said she was wicked, she never said she was not, so therefore my child’s mind believed him.

He thought it was hilarious.

click below to read the full article

http://parentallyalienated.blogspot.fr/search/label/A%20warning%20to%20parental%20alienators

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Currently studying Psychotherapy , Cognitive psychology, Biological psychology, Counselling psychology and CBT. I believe in truth, honesty and integrity! ≧◔◡◔≦

2 thoughts on “ALIENATED KIDS LOVE THE TARGET PARENT!

  1. I am being alienated from my children on Easter…not only due to the abuser but the corrupt family court judge refuses to give me a holiday schedule, and instead tells me that my abuser has sole discretion over my parenting time.
    I just want to say that Easter is not just a holiday, it is a Holy Day. There is a deep, spiritual significance to Easter; to deny your child a connection to their spiritual background, and by extension, their identity and culture is not only abusive but will leave lifelong scars. Part of the meaning of Easter also talks about sacrifice, and that real love will put the lives of others before your own life, your own interests. Easter is about unconditional love. And forgiveness. Think about it. If you truly love your child, then it is time to forgive and put aside your own interests, so that child can have the benefit of having both parents in their life. xo

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